the day date! what a magical invention. one of tovi’s sweet clients gave him a gift certificate to andersen’s, one of his favorite breakfast spots. the last couple of times we’ve been there, it was with our kids, so i did not have a good time, and was willing to try it again, just the two of us.
everything about a day date is the best. we dropped the kids off with tovi’s mom really early in the morning and the two of us were sitting down to breakfast by 8:45. we sat outside to people watch. we alternated between coffee and champagne, pastries and eggs. we talked. we dreamed. we agreed that, given the opportunity, we’d move to germany. this is the kind of crazy talk that only happens when our conversation is uninterrupted and unhurried. and it was only 9:15! the whole day was ahead of us!
before our date, tovi had proposed that we each pick somewhere to go after breakfast. i chose the new santa barbara public market and he chose a walk along the breakwater. it was a simple morning, walking around, checking out the fresh pasta at the market, and the crabs scuttling on the rocks in the harbor. it’s so good for us to pause, in the daylight and sunshine, and really see each other and connect. there was something so refreshing about being out together during the day. can’t wait for our next day date.